TO PARADISE

Marriage is the solemn union of two people who wish to spend the rest of their lives together.

Marriage is something sacred, we enter it with the aim of staying there until our last breath.

My name is Oumou, I divorced my husband two months ago but I still love him, my desire to live with him is unfulfilled, I love him with a sincere love that is deep.

I was sitting on my bed as usual looking pensive as I passed through our moments of pure happiness that we lived together, we fought against everyone to get married and not even two months of marriage,

we break up.

I was so deep in my thoughts that I didn't hear my sister talking to me.

-Oumoo!!!

-Ah Sarata

-I've been talking to you for a while now, you're so pensive, don't tell me you're still thinking about this man

-Yes Oumou I still think about him, this man dominates my mind, I still can't get him out of my head, my desire to see him wake up by my side still remains unfulfilled.

- But he's not the only man on this earth anyway, you're beautiful, charming, full of quality, you can have a husband better than Ibou, stop torturing yourself, it's just for a man you want

mortgaging your life, men aren't worth it, since when haven't you been to work, by dint of being absent, you're going to lose your job and you know it better than me

-You can't understand Sarata

-Understand what Oumou, that you are hurting yourself that is not worth it, he threw you away like a clean evil with barely two months of marriage

- But I love him Sarata, I love him with all my might, I can't see myself being with another man than him

-But love alone is not enough Oumou

-I can't believe our relationship ended like this everything we went through.

-He doesn't deserve you, that's just it my sister, you are beautiful, charming, elegant, charismatic, take back your life in hand, many men would dream of having you by their side, there is no shortage of good men

not in this country Oumou, it's time for you to pull yourself together, the stories of heartache are over

-You can't understand me Sarata, at least try to put yourself in my place, I fought to make our union official, I never stood up to my parents, I did it to get married with

him, I turned my back on my family, I alienated all the people who loved me to just be with him, he was the center of my life, I gave everything for him, I couldn't see

than him, I only needed his presence and no one else and one day he told me that we were going to separate for no valid reason just after two months of marriage.

- But it's not the end of the world anyway Oumou, I really sympathize with your pain, I understand you perfectly

- No you don't understand me because you don't know anything about love

-Don't start judging me again

Sarata is one of those women who no longer believe in love or let's say they are afraid to commit.

When she was younger, a man flirted with her, he let her know that Yagu nako had been observing (he had been observing her for a long time) and that he loved her té lou seriously moko taha diouk (he wanted

a serious relationship, these intentions towards Sarata were noble, then naive as Sarata was she decides to introduce the man in question to her mother because the man seemed serious to her unlike the other men who had to woo her, the guy

came to Sarata's and talked with her mother and told her that he wants to take Sarata as a wife in a few months. He also introduced Sarata to her family. In short, Sarata was very happy because she thought that

'she had come across the right one, she thought she would find shoes at her feet.

A few months later, she learned that the guy in question was cheating on him with his ex-girlfriend, that is to say that the man in question was going out at the same time with Sarata and his ex-girlfriend, each time he told Sarata that it was

she he loved, that she was the one he chose, that his ex-girlfriend was running behind him, he had even cried in front of Sarata to forgive him.

each time she forgives him but he continues to cheat on her.

Sarata wanted to get out of this toxic relationship but she couldn't, it was her first love, she got used to this man's presence, this man made her believe in love, Sarata had blind faith in him

.They had three years of relationship, yes, three years of suffering.

At one point she was seriously ill because of the disappointment in love. Well one day she decided to take her courage with both hands and make radio silence, Sarata had completely put this man aside hoping that the guy will change but imagine

?

Sarata knew a few days later that he married his ex-girlfriend.

It is this man who has made Sarata no longer able to love any man, she is very beautiful mashallah and mother nature has not forgotten her, she is a real African woman but despite everything she can no longer love

it's true that she receives proposals but she's afraid to give her heart again and experience the same thing.

- Sorry, my words were not thought out

-I am quite the opposite of you Oumou, me at least of course I can no longer fall in love but I take care of myself, I work and I continue to be strong and to move forward in life.

-Don't get angry Sister

-No I'm not upset, I just want to show you that men are not worth it, rebuild yourself, try to rebuild your relationship with the people you had abandoned, dad mom, your best friend.

-You want me to leave your house, if you want, tell me, I can afford an apartment

Oumou since she is divorced lives with her little sister, she is ashamed to go back to her parents, they were against this marriage but Oumou had stood up to them and now since she is divorced, she is ashamed to look them in the eye

in the eyes.

- Stop being on the defensive, since you got divorced you have become very hard, you are complicating things for nothing, I am not chasing you out of my house, besides I would never do it

-Yet I had this impression, why are you talking to me about mom dad

-I just want you to understand that they are your parents, those are your elders, you cannot have other superiors than them, I am your sister, I love you and that is why I have the duty

to tell you the truth, get up, get your life back, go ask mom and dad for forgiveness, it's better for you

-I did nothing wrong, I just fought for my love

- You are not forbidden to fight for your love but the way you did it remains to be desired, you have cut all ties with your own family since your marriage and you think it's normal Oumou, pull yourself together

,go home and try to come to an end with them, they are suffering from this situation you know, it's not right to inflict such suffering on your parents.

-I'm not ready to face them

- Are you not ready or are you ashamed?

- I don't know, think what you want

- That's what I was telling you, you've become very hard, no one can argue with you, in any case I told you what I thought, go ask your parents for forgiveness, the ball is in your court.

-And if he comes back to take me back? ..,, she said smiling.

- Hey come down to earth dear sister, would you agree to go back with him after what he did?

-Kou beug dangay niak diome, a person who loves must lack shame.

- You are amazing

-I got it............

The sentence remained in her mouth, Oumou ran to the bathroom, she had a sudden urge to vomit.

She comes out of the room five minutes later and Sarata was looking at her with her eyes there.

- Aren't you pregnant?

-Me pregnant!...... she exclaims with a smile on her lips.

TO BE CONTINUED

If Oumou is pregnant then does that mean she is still married?

If she pregnant, then divorce is not valid?

What do you think of the beginning of this story?

Your impressions will be welcome.

- Sorry, my words were not thought out

-I am quite the opposite of you Oumou, me at least of course I can no longer fall in love but I take care of myself, I work and I continue to be strong and to move forward in life.

-Don't get angry Sister

-No I'm not upset, I just want to show you that men are not worth it, rebuild yourself, try to rebuild your relationship with the people you had abandoned, dad mom, your best friend.

-You want me to leave your house, if you want, tell me, I can afford an apartment

Oumou since she is divorced lives with her little sister, she is ashamed to go back to her parents, they were against this marriage but Oumou had stood up to them and now since she is divorced, she is ashamed to look them in the eye

in the eyes.

- Stop being on the defensive, since you got divorced you have become very hard, you are complicating things for nothing, I am not chasing you out of my house, besides I would never do it

-Yet I had this impression, why are you talking to me about mom dad

-I just want you to understand that they are your parents, those are your elders, you cannot have other superiors than them, I am your sister, I love you and that is why I have the duty

to tell you the truth, get up, get your life back, go ask mom and dad for forgiveness, it's better for you

-I did nothing wrong, I just fought for my love

- You are not forbidden to fight for your love but the way you did it remains to be desired, you have cut all ties with your own family since your marriage and you think it's normal Oumou, pull yourself together

,go home and try to come to an end with them, they are suffering from this situation you know, it's not right to inflict such suffering on your parents.

-I'm not ready to face them

- Are you not ready or are you ashamed?

- I don't know, think what you want

- That's what I was telling you, you've become very hard, no one can argue with you, in any case I told you what I thought, go ask your parents for forgiveness, the ball is in your court.

-And if he comes back to take me back? ..,, she said smiling.

- Hey come down to earth dear sister, would you agree to go back with him after what he did?

-Kou beug dangay niak diome, a person who loves must lack shame.

- You are amazing

-I got it............

The sentence remained in her mouth, Oumou ran to the bathroom, she had a sudden urge to vomit.

She comes out of the room five minutes later and Sarata was looking at her with her eyes there.

- Aren't you pregnant?

-Me pregnant!...... she exclaims with a smile on her lips.

TO BE CONTINUED

If Oumou is pregnant then does that mean she is still married?

If she pregnant, then divorce is not valid?

What do you think of the beginning of this story?

Your impressions will be welcome.

See you soon for a new game full of twists and turns.

See you soon for a new game full of twists and turns.

There are times in our lives when we think all is lost when no, the story has just begun.

A relationship is built by God and as long as he does not decide that it is over, it will not be deconstructed.

Divorce many women experience it very badly, between heartache, the gaze of society, judgments, the woman sometimes fell into stress.

In Africa, particularly in Senegal, we have a negative opinion of divorced women, many think they are bad or cannot manage their households when no, marriage is a relationship of complementarity, it is not because it

there is divorce that it is necessarily the fault of the woman no, both spouses can be responsible for it, sometimes it is the woman who asks for the divorce and the reasons are many, sometimes it is the man

who asks for the divorce and the reasons are also numerous.

Let's stop judging divorced women, being a divorcee is not synonymous with a bad woman or an easy woman, or a woman who is not serious,