Alpha's Soulmate Reviews

I appreciate that the male lead is attempting to adapt to the the way the female lead feels and how she thinks instead of being a heartless monster like other male leads. However what I don’t like is that the male leads in the beginning were always blaming the way the female lead acts and thinks. What I don’t understand is that they wouldn’t treat the male or female counterparts of their kind the way they treat the humans so if they didn’t like getting beat and assaulted why do they think the humans would??